Every family has storytellers — the relatives who remember the holidays, hardships, and humorous moments that define your heritage. Recording their memories is one of the most meaningful ways to preserve your Jewish family history. Oral histories capture details no document can — the warmth of a voice, the cadence of a story, and the wisdom of experience. Here’s how to begin.

1. Prepare Thoughtful Questions
Start with open-ended prompts. Instead of asking, “Where were you born?” try, “What do you remember about your neighborhood growing up?” Questions about traditions, foods, and family celebrations often unlock the most vivid memories.

2. Choose the Right Setting
Find a quiet, comfortable place with minimal distractions. Many people open up best at the kitchen table or in their favorite chair. Bring along old photos or heirlooms to spark memories and conversation.

3. Use Simple Recording Tools
You don’t need fancy equipment — a smartphone voice recorder or free app like StoryCorps or Voice Memos works well. If possible, record in video too. Seeing expressions and gestures adds richness to the story.

4. Listen More Than You Speak
Let your relative lead the conversation. Avoid interrupting or correcting. Gentle follow-up questions (“What happened next?” or “How did you feel?”) often reveal emotional depth and unexpected stories.

5. Save and Share Securely
Store recordings in multiple formats — digital files, cloud backups, or USB drives labeled with names and dates. Transcribe the stories, and consider donating copies to a local Jewish genealogical society or family archive.

6. Revisit and Reflect
Oral histories aren’t one-time projects. Revisit them over time — memories deepen as you listen again. Every recorded word adds a living link to your family’s Jewish legacy.